This Book Transformed My Life: ‘The Four Agreements’ by Don Miguel Ruiz — How It Happened”

PINAR TURGUT
3 min readSep 10, 2023

So, there’s this book,The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz, and let me tell you, it’s had a profound impact on my life. Just like many of us, I was leading a busy life in a bustling city. I had what seemed like all the right boxes ticked — a decent job, a cozy home, and a packed social calendar. But deep down, I was wrestling with stress, anxiety, and this relentless need for validation from others. My life felt like a never-ending quest for approval.

One day, in a rare moment of quiet reflection, I stumbled upon this book, “The Four Agreements.” The subtitle, “A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom,” instantly caught my attention, and I decided to give it a shot. Little did I know, this book was about to change my life in ways I couldn’t have anticipated.

As I dove into the book, I discovered these four incredible agreements:

1. Be impeccable with your word: Don Miguel Ruiz talked about the importance of speaking honestly and kindly, not just to others but to ourselves. I realized I’d been engaging in gossip and negative self-talk, which was adding to my inner turmoil. I made a promise to myself to change my speech patterns and choose words that uplifted both me and those around me.

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